The Role Of The Mother In Child Education

The Role Of The Mother In Child Education

Behind the great man there's a great woman behind him

Thus the words of a wise man is due first. If there is a man who became a well-known figure, cendikia cleric, Knight or hero, look at who their mother. Since mom has a major role in shaping the character, character, and the knowledge of a person.

Mom is ustadzah first, before the little one learned to ustadz great though

Then intelligence, tenacity, and the culture of the mothers is the dominant factor for the future of the child. As well as the mother's milk. Hence the Prophet Shallallahu'alaihi And forbids parents them them on a weak woman makes sense. Because breast milk can bequeath the traits of the mother on the baby.

In the book Ar Raudhul Unuf mentioned that persusuan it was like a blood relationship (forbidden), it can affect a person's character. Later authors quoting a Hadith from ' Aisha could be in radhiallahu'anha ': "do ye to them stupid women, because breast milk will pass down the nature of the mother".

One of the companions of the Prophet named Aktsam bin Shaifi account ever make it to his people. Among them, he says,

أوصيكم بتقوى الله، وصلة الرحم ؛ فإنه لا يبلى عليهما أصل، ولا يهتصر عليهما فرع، وإياكم ونكاح الحمقاء ؛فإن صحبتها قذر

"I wasiatkan to you guys so that always devoted to God and connect the rope hospitality. With both the root (of the faith) will always be upright, and its branches will not be crooked. Take heed lest you guys married to women who are afflicted with it, because life is a disgrace "

Indeed such was the fact; the woman folly will only involve a husband, hard to be educated and hard set. His son would be displaced and orphanages.

Never a when there is a father who complained to the believers-Umar Ibn Khathab account about his sin. The man said that his son always said to him and often rudely hit him. Then Umar summoned the boy and rebuked him.

"Thou Wretched! Do you not know that disobedience to parents is a great sin, who invited the wrath of God? ", snapped Umar.

"Wait a minute, o-Believers. Don't be hasty mengadiliku. If indeed a father has a right to his child, wouldn't the son also had a right to his father ", asked the child.

"True," answered He. "Then what are the rights of the child against his father's last", continued the child.

"There are three," answered He. "First, let him choose the candidate a good mother for her son. Second, he named it with a good name. And third, it should teach him to memorize the Qur'an ".

Then the child says, "know, o Believers,-my father never did one of three things. He did not choose the candidate a good mom to me, my mother was a servant of the freeing of ugly black bought from the market for two dirhams. Then that night he gauli so pregnant mengandungku. After I was born menamaiku dad Ju'al any, and he never taught me to memorize the Qur'an, although one verse! ".

"Go there! Kaulah yang mendurhakainya's childhood, deserves if he disobeyed unto you now, "snapped Umar to his father.

So, mom has such a huge role in determining the future of the little one. The mother, with genuine affection, is the little one out for overnight in its future. At his side was the little warmth. Smile and caress the hand mother will rekindle the passion. Gentle fingers or toes are always looking up to the sky, teriring prayers and tears for the deraian buh liver, there is a key to success in tomorrow.

In his Siyar, Adz when he tells the story of Muhammad bin Ahmad bin Fadhal Al Balkhi, he heard his father say that both eyes Imam Al Bukhari had blinded during childhood. But one night, his mother dreamed that he met the Prophet Ibrahim. Prophet Ibrahim said to him, "Hi Mom, ' Allah has pleased return the vision of your son because of the stream of tears and the amount you're panjatkan prayers to him". Then after we check the next day turned out to be a vision of Al Bukhari really has returned.