educating children with patience

Agree no, that care for and educate the child need a mountainous patience? From morning till night we had to face the vagaries of the doings of the child are endless. Not want to descend from the sling, fighting with her brother, often nocturnal enuresis conceded when toilet training, it is easy to cry, don't want to eat, not stopping whining ask snack, and of course there are still many more. But we've been tired with homework that never endless.

When it's probably the emotions we have culminated to the Cantle, the head seemed to want to rupture, chest feels claustrophobic. That time we need is clarity of mind so it's not anger that overwhelms us. When such is appropriate we want to reflect on a Hadith which is preached by the Prophet sallallaahu ' alaihi wa sallam from Shuhaib radhiyallahu'anhu,

عَجَبًا لِأَمْرِ الْمُؤْمِنِ، إِنَّ أَمْرَهُ كُلَّهُ خَيْرٌ، وَلَيْسَ ذَاكَ لِأَحَدٍ إِلَّا لِلْمُؤْمِنِ، إِنْ أَصَابَتْهُ سَرَّاءُ شَكَرَ، فَكَانَ خَيْرًا لَهُ، وَإِنْ أَصَابَتْهُ ضَرَّاءُ، صَبَرَ فَكَانَ خَيْرًا لَهُ

"It's amazing the Affairs of a believer. Indeed all matter is good for him. And it does not exist except in a believer. When he gets the pleasure then she is grateful, then it is a virtue for him. If she were suffering hardship so he was be patient, then it is also a kindness for him. " (Narrated by Muslim, [77] see al-Minhaj Syarh Sahih Muslim [9/241])

The child is a test for parents. If we are able to be patient in educating them certainly will be no recompense of reward from God, and later we will reap the fruit of patience that sweet like honey. That is when they've grown, they've been accustomed to kala and educated with goodness that we teach and they become obedient to human Rabbnya. Prayers are always panjatkan to us is their property and investment are priceless. Then any applications such as patience in educating children?

Here are a few examples of the application of patience in educating children,

Patient in teaching kindness in children

One part of patience described the cleric is patience in performing obedience to God. Patient in teaching kindness on a child fall into this category. Teach kindness requires the patience of a mother. Teach the daily prayers, etiquette and good morals, memorizing the qur'an, and so on.

Wait answer questions children

In a time of growing important role, the child will undergo a phase where he would always ask about things around him start from the large yan until things are trivial. Don't be complaining about this, o Mother! Be patient answer any questions our children because children ask us he put trust in us as parents. If we were-ogahan or even grumpy with questions that children ask you then the child may be deterrent asked again and he will not put trust in us so will ask someone else. Then what would happen if he were to ask people who aren't exactly so get a response that is harmful to religion?

Wait becomes a good friend and listener

Including the nature of the patient in educating children is being a good listener. Do not ever presume that they underestimated our children, listen to curhatan and sisipi as well as with Sage commentary with advice.

Wait while the emotions culminating

The face of child behaviour sometimes naughty indeed annoying. This is the time it takes patience. If anger comes try to stay away from children until our emotions to subside. After the new approach the reda, the son of menasehatinya and try again. Advise the child while rage will not be pointless and doesn't provide awareness for children.

Wait if we endeavor to educate children has not shown maximum results

Be patient if there is no maximum results in educating our children. Always remember that God will always see the process not the result. We endeavor to educate every child of God reply even though it's a small thing. Always pray for our children so that they become a child that Salih-shalihah.

 

Educating children is not easy, it will be there and with briars and thorns. Cultivate patience also is not easy matter. Aren't we knew along that path to paradise of God filled with things that we don't like let alone woman does have properties like bitching. So bersemangatlah trying to be a mother who patiently, hopefully these tips can help:

1. Practicefor thepatient, andthis should begradualnotpossiblecanbe directly.
2. Prayed to Godin order tonourishthe nature ofpatient inour soul.
3. Read aboutthe virtue ofthe nature of the patient andalsothe story ofthe Prophetand thecompanionsas well as thoseSalihwheneducatingtheir children.
4. Waitthatcan go upand down, then the rajinlahchargeof ourpatiencewith lots ofreading, attendingthe Assembly ofscience, as well as berkawanwitha friend whoshalihahto beadvisedus tobe patient.
5. Remindeach otherwithourpartnerin educatingchildren, thatourhusbands.

Open our eyes, many parents who have not had children or have children but has a ' limitations ' that make children difficult to be educated. Remember it so we will be thankful and trying hard to cultivate patience in educating our children. Always remember that children are our order to invest in the next future. Like farming, seed tanamlah be patient and take care of him, then later we will sow fruit ranum.