The Children Follow Parents

A child who sees his father always remembrance and bertahlil, tahmid, and celebrate, then she would be easy to say: Laa ilaaha illalloh, Subhanallah, and Allahu akbar.

Similarly, a child who is conditioned to send alms at night because his parents sent by to the poor in secret, will obviously be different with a child who is told by her parents at night to buy drugs or smoking.

A child who has always viewed his father fasting on Mondays and Thursdays, participated in the prayer congregation at the mosque will obviously be different with a father who sees his father being in the gambling Centre or cinema as well as entertainment venues.

You'll see a child who is always listening to the sound of chanting Athan, Athan repeat and you'll see a child who is always listening to the songs chanted her parents, chanting anyway.

Truly beautiful if a father is a private slelu do good to her parents with a prayer to them and beg for forgiveness to God for them, always ask the situation and calm to be with both of them, always meet the needs of both prayer and reproduce with the phrase:

Robbigh waliwali dayya firli

"O God, forgive me and both of my parents"

He would always say:

Robbbirhamhuma kama robbayani shoghiro

"O God, have mercy on them both well they have educated at small"

He was on a pilgrimage to the grave of his parents, gifts for both, connect the kinship with the people to close with both, also giving to people who are always given by both of them.

If a child sees the culture of her parents, then with the permission of God, the child will imitate what their parents do. He would always ask Allah forgiveness for her parents, sealu and do something that is commonly done by both parents to grandfather and grandmother.

A child who was educated by his parents pray will obviously be different with a child that is commonly taught to watch movies, music or football.

Unless a child saw both his parents pray night with the crying out of fear to God also by reading the Qur'an, he will think why her father crying? Why would she craft made prayer? And why did she leave the padded bed warm again? Why did he choose a cool water ablutions?!

Why he left his bed by choosing appealed to Rabbnya with fear and hope?

All these questions will always be embedded in the mind of a child and always thought about that in the end the child with the permission of Allah will mimic just about anything made by her parents.

So are the girls who saw his mother always berhijab and shut himself away from the other men, he was decorated with the shame and honor, chastity himself has made himself a noble. If her mother so her son will also learn undoubtedly instilled a sense of shame, honor and chastity of her mother. While the girls who saw his mother always decorated themselves in front of any man, be shaken, and mixed baur, laugh and smile with another man even danced with them, then his son will learn that from him.

Then fear ye, o the mum and dad! Keep the children you guys, and be ye as suri dnegna for them giving good temperaments and habits. Before it all, be ye as suri giving by holding fast to the religion of Allah is also his Prophet.