The Best offspring

In Order To Get The Descendants Of Salih

Every person naturally wants child Salih. His presence became a complement of happiness, solace, as well as jewelry in the world. The son of Salih is one form of God's favors given to his servants. It is the practice of Salih to his parents during life and after they died, as was reported by the Prophet sallallaahu ' alaihi wa sallam from the hadeeth of Abu Hurayrah Radi ' anhu:

"If a slave has died then terputuslah throughout the sharee'ah except three things: charity jariyah, useful science and son of Salih who pray for him" (Hadith Muslim history no. 1631)

Educate the generations in order to become a good generation it is not easy. His knowledge cannot be acquired instantly. Learn it any time there is no time limit. Between virtue and perfection of Islamic jurisprudence is to load everything. Including how the Islamic attention towards children before her parents make a marriage.

If that becomes the main intent in building a household is to get a descent Salih, then this target it is not possible to materialize only with meeting a man and a woman. But to look for norms and principles upon which established a household. These rules are matters that have been prescribed in detail by Islam, starting with choosing a life companion have certain criteria so that the target can be achieved.

Therefore, a compulsory vote strong woman religious and noble character. As the oracles of the Prophet sallallaahu ' alaihi wa sallam,

"The world is the best of the world's jewelry and jewelry is a female shalihah." (Narrated by Muslim from the hadeeth of Abdullah ibn Umar)

 

"Will I teach you about the best treasures of a man, IE his wife shalihah which when seen will please him, obey him, and would have ruled if he went the wife will take care of itself." (Narrated by Abu Dawood, no. 1417. Ash-Shaykh Muqbil taymiyah said in Al-Saheeh Jami'ush 3/57: "this Hadith Sahih Muslim terms above.")

There is no doubt that the wife is the leader of the House, because he was in charge of keeping her husband's House and is also responsible for the execution of the task. If the wife is a woman shalihah sure he is going to build a solid household and carried out with things that can bring happiness to the whole House. Educating his children well until they become people who have glorious, familiarize them to do good things and keep them away from the ugly habits and bad attitudes.

Women are closely related to good or bad a generation. Because of her womb was out of the succession. And under its shadow is the successor to earlier got his first education. Muhammad Qutb said, "a damaged child could still be good as long as he never gets a good mother caregiving. Instead, the mother of the damaged their ways will only give birth to a generation that also damaged their ways. "

Abul Aswad al-Duaili said to his sons, "what I have been doing good to you guys since you guys are still small to you guys since you guys even adults are not yet born."

Her children ask, "How is father do good to us before we were born?"

He replied, "I have a mother to you pick where you guys will never be disappointed in him."

 

As well as the fetus. In addition it requires a mother's shalihah, have a strong religion so that it is able to keep and observe it when it was still in the womb and can inherit its properties. The fetus also need a father figure that keeps him and Salih mother. Herein lies the responsibility of the family or a guardian in order not to marry the son of gadisnya with just anyone. But should they really pay attention to the creed and the morals of the youth who came the proposal of his son. There is no slander and damage the most against religion and morals of a person other than the actions of the family let the shalihah gadisnya children submit fell into the hands of a man who strayed from Islamic jurisprudence, has no honour and feelings of jealousy to the wife. He forced his wife to indulgence Awrah, diffuse mixed with men and dragging it out of the path of religion and morals. Coupled with the bad influence he brings to the children.

While the selection of the husband or wife is run on the basis of the glory and keshalihan, there is no doubt that children who are born will grow above the kindness, honor, chastity, and consistent in holding religious teachings. When inside a child huddled factor genetic Salih, as well as the education factor is good then with the permission of God will produce a child who has the best morals and religion. Ketakwaannya, distinction, his intercourse, and glorious their ways will be an example for others.

So, there is no other way for those who wish to tread the wedding except level must be clever-clever picking a life partner Salih. Of this sacred bond built happy family, headed by a husband who Salih and driven by a wife who is shalihah, if they want to get a descent Salih and sacred as well as children who are believers.